Yes Coach M4M-themed events are open to all.  Deets TBA  

Presented by Lucky Join us at Sanctuary, your favorite sexy queer gathering spot, for an unforgettable night of fun, playful, and sensual expression! I'll be hosting an event that blends karaoke, clowns, and kink—so get ready for a wild evening. This time, we’re adding special performances throughout the night, alongside a variety of kink tastings […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. We are a unique and […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why "Bi-Night" when every night is kind of already "Bi-Night"? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]

Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]

Back by popular demand! In the words of Juicee Froot: This is an all girls party and no boys can come. This is a free-form play party.  And remember that no matter what happens... some incel SadMad with a lonely dick will be mad about it. Play rooms are open. Normal rules apply. Featuring Dj […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.

Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

We are proud to say, with air conditioning, heat, and an elevator in the space, that this is Portland’s only fully accessible rope jam. This location is a space that is designed to be inclusive and equal for everyone, regardless of accessibility needs. And we hold a beginners class at the start of every event. […]

Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.

Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]

Presented by Faye By popular demand, get goth, emo, scene, and truly hate the sun! Dance and go medieval on that ass! Featuring DJ William The Bloody $10 Cash/$12 CC in goth attire — including anything black or kinda spooky. $15/17 street clothes. Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity.

A monthly discussion of all things kink! Hosted by @MaeveMcBride **Topic: TBA** **Munch:** This is a relaxed meet and mingle event for those interested in the kink lifestyle who are looking to meet new friends and maybe more. Whether you are curious about the lifestyle, new to it, or a seasoned community member; this is a […]

What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.

Honk Honk! It’s time for FUNGEON (Fun Dungeon) a QTBIPOC Kink and Dance Party for Clowns, Mimes and all circus folk alike. Third Thursday’s at Sanctuary Club 9PM until bar close If a clown gives you head is it called Big Top? Hosted by Witch Prince Asylum and Anna Nicole Spliff There will be pop […]

Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Presented by Mx Bliss Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look like you're headed out to a sports […]

Presented by Hellhound Come dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary's Trans kink party - Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches, and dance floor. Kink, sex, and dancing encouraged. Consent is mandatory. Cash: $10 before 10pm, $20 after CC: $12 before 10pm, $22 after […]

Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]

Mistress Viola leads the premier femdom event in the US. Every fourth Thursday. Deets TBA

Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Presented by Lucky Join us at Sanctuary, your favorite sexy queer gathering spot, for an unforgettable night of fun, playful, and sensual expression! I'll be hosting an event that blends karaoke, clowns, and kink—so get ready for a wild evening. This time, we’re adding special performances throughout the night, alongside a variety of kink tastings […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. We are a unique and […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why "Bi-Night" when every night is kind of already "Bi-Night"? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]