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Gay Barn presents: Dyke March – Fist and Resist!
Calling all dykes! Let’s come together to rage and resist – one fist at a time! Get your tits out and your docs on, charge up your vibrators, and pocket your poppers. The Gay Barn is keeping things wild in the spirit of all the dykes and homos who came before us, in their own […]
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Get Lucky: Karaoke, Clowns & Kink
Get Lucky: Karaoke, Clowns & Kink
Presented by Lucky Join us at Sanctuary, your favorite sexy queer gathering spot, for an unforgettable night of fun, playful, and sensual expression! I'll be hosting an event that blends karaoke, clowns, and kink—so get ready for a wild evening. This time, we’re adding special performances throughout the night, alongside a variety of kink tastings […]
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Game Bang!
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]
2 events,
BroadCast
BroadCast
Thursday, April 3, 2025 7:00 - 9:00 pm Peer Support / Discussion lead by Laicy & Janice We welcome you to BroadCast – Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women, fem-identifying, genderqueer, and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, […]
Bi Night
Bi Night
Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why "Bi-Night" when every night is kind of already "Bi-Night"? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]
2 events,
“Electromancy” 101 with Electra Shock!
“Electromancy” 101 with Electra Shock!
Whether you’re already a fan of electricity play, just curious, or even a little terrified, Electromancy 101 will get your sparks flying! First we'll explore the magic of the violet wand. You'll learn all about direct, indirect and reverse methods for play. Whether you're into pain or pleasure, the possibilities are endless! Discover the body […]
Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
2 events,
The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]
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Yes Coach
Yes Coach
🔥 Get ready for an extra wild and unforgettable night! This signature event is BACK and bigger than ever, promising outrageous fun, fierce competition, and a celebration of community like no other 🐾🎶. 🏆 THE NIGHT’S HIGHLIGHTS: 👟 Sneaker Bootblacking: Shine up those kicks and keep the vibes fresh. 🎯 Outrageous Challenges: Take on daring games for epic prizes and […]
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Girl Crush: Fem4Fem Speed Date
Girl Crush: Fem4Fem Speed Date
Girl Crush: Fem4Fem Speed Dating at Sanctuary led by Lucky! Date: Second Tuesdays before Devils Doorbell Doors: 7 p.m. $10 cash/$12 CC Attendees can stay for Devils Doorbell, an all-girls play party immediately following. Having trouble meeting other girls for more than coffee or a friendly shopping trip? Afraid to possibly ruin friendships by revealing […]
Devils Doorbell: Girls Only Play Party
Devils Doorbell: Girls Only Play Party
Back by popular demand! In the words of Juicee Froot: This is an all girls party and no boys can come. This is a free-form play party. And remember that no matter what happens... some incel SadMad with a lonely dick will be mad about it. Play rooms are open. Normal rules apply. Featuring Dj […]
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Game Bang: Neon Nights
Game Bang: Neon Nights
Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.
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Spanktuary
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will […]
1 event,
Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
3 events,
Rope Arts Group PDX
Rope Arts Group PDX
We are proud to say, with air conditioning, heat, and an elevator in the space, that this is Portland’s only fully accessible rope jam. This location is a space that is designed to be inclusive and equal for everyone, regardless of accessibility needs. And we hold a beginners class at the start of every event. […]
Laughrodisiac
Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
House Party
House Party
Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]
2 events,
The Edge of Desire: Knife Play 101
The Edge of Desire: Knife Play 101
The Edge of Desire: Knife Play 101 Presented by Jamie Joy from NYC Come sharpen your skills in this edgy and seductive workshop on Knife Play for the bold and adventurous! From selecting the perfect blade to building a heart-pounding scene, this class promises to send shivers down your spine. The skilled instructor will cover […]
Cirque De Sade: Fairies and Fantasies
Cirque De Sade: Fairies and Fantasies
Celebrate all things FAIRY & FANTASY at Portland's only Edge-Play party at Sanctuary, SUNDAY, APR 13th, 2025, 8pm - 1am--it's also your last opportunity to run through KinkFest scenes and costume changes! Impress us with your darkest fantasies and your freaky fairies. Bring your edgy fairy tales, KF practice scenes/costumes...and candy! Dress up for the occasion in costume, […]
1 event,
Downtown Munch
Downtown Munch
A monthly discussion of all things kink! Hosted by @MaeveMcBride **Topic: TBA** **Munch:** This is a relaxed meet and mingle event for those interested in the kink lifestyle who are looking to meet new friends and maybe more. Whether you are curious about the lifestyle, new to it, or a seasoned community member; this is a […]
1 event,
Game Bang: Pajamas
Game Bang: Pajamas
What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.
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FUNGEON: A QTBIPOC CIRCUS KINK NIGHT & DANCE PARTY
FUNGEON: A QTBIPOC CIRCUS KINK NIGHT & DANCE PARTY
Honk Honk! It’s time for FUNGEON (Fun Dungeon) a QTBIPOC Kink and Dance Party for Clowns, Mimes and all circus folk alike. Third Thursday’s at Sanctuary Club 9PM until bar close If a clown gives you head is it called Big Top? Hosted by Witch Prince Asylum and Anna Nicole Spliff There will be pop […]
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Kinkfest AfterParty Party
Kinkfest AfterParty Party
Presented by Mx Bliss Join us in this warm and welcoming environment to focus on providing aftercare, landing softly (or getting in that last hard scene or two), and providing support to one another as we wrap up a glorious KinkFest 2025 weekend. To help with your aftercare, we will be spinning mellower music and […]
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Gallery Girls: Drink & Draw
Gallery Girls: Drink & Draw
Presented by Gallery Girls PDX ABOUT THIS EVENT In Portland & Online (Live Streamed or Recorded) with live models! Fun Music - 5, 10 & 25 min poses We will also ZOOM the Event LIVE! DATE: Tuesday, January 28, 2025 TIME: 7:00 to 10:00pm Pacific time IN PERSON: $20 prepaid / $25 on the day […]
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Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]
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50 Shades of STFU
50 Shades of STFU
Mistress Viola leads the premier femdom event in the US. Every fourth Thursday. Deets TBA
1 event,
Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
2 events,
Jiffy Kink: Speed Date
Jiffy Kink: Speed Date
Due to KinkFest, Jiffy Kink is on Friday a week later in April]. Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If […]
Jiffy Kink: a kink odyssey (scifi/fantasy month)
Jiffy Kink: a kink odyssey (scifi/fantasy month)
. It’s scifi/fantasy month at Jiffy Kink. Dress up as your favorite Star Wars (or Star Trek if that's how you roll), space-influenced, futuristic, alien, or fantasy characters. Have that silver body suit you've been wanting to wear, or want to dress up as an alien (to do that abduction/probing scene)? Now's your chance! Dress […]
1 event,
TranscenDance
TranscenDance
Presented by Hellhound Come dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary's Trans kink party - Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches, and dance floor. Kink, sex, and dancing encouraged. Consent is mandatory. Cash: $10 before 10pm, $20 after CC: $12 before 10pm, $22 after […]
1 event,
Game Bang
Game Bang
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]
2 events,
BroadCast
BroadCast
We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. We are a unique and […]
Bi Night
Bi Night
Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why "Bi-Night" when every night is kind of already "Bi-Night"? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]
1 event,
Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
2 events,
The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]
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