Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

**Boundless Rope Experience w/ Class on Tension and Intention -communicating your intention with rope tension- Please join us for the Boundless Rope Experience (“BRE”) Schedule: Doors Open: 3pm Class: 3:30-4:30pm Meet & Greet Activity: 4:30-5:30pm Tie & Lab: 5:30-6:30pm Class Description: Communicating your Intention with your Rope Tension This is the good stuff, y’all! Rope […]

Laughter is the best foreplay. Portland’s longest-running & filthiest monthly comedy showcase! Hosted by Amanda Lynn Deal 21+, $10 Two-drink minimum Featuring Lacie Wood Lori Van Deman River Starr Carlos Kareem Windham Eleanore Ryan Andrea Menchaca   All door sales go to the comedians. Doors at 7 PM, show at 8 PM Please show the […]

Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]

Portland Leather Alliance

Get ready to elevate your typical “Netflix and Chill” night with Stream N’ Steam—an immersive, erotic, and indulgent experience that combines at-home film flings with the excitement of public group play! You are invited to come take Sin-ema to provocative new heights with this exclusive, adults-only event! Stream N’ Steam is a bi-monthly event that […]

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or […]