Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Welcome to Sapphic Night, an event centered around those fem aligned : lesbians, bisexual women, queer femmes and anyone who would feel at home in a fem focused event. This sex-positive event allows play free from the male gaze. “Eros, the melter of limbs, again stirs me — sweet, bitter, unmanageable creature who steals in” […]

Presented by Kandy Pet Play events are usually all about the puppy dogs; But tonight we will give our Kittens the limelight! Come enjoy a safe space to exist in your pet play persona. Lots of fun activities centered around kitty cats, but all creatures are welcome here! Featured: -Kennel available for short term confinement […]

Come for Body/Language and get entry into Game Bang!!!! Body/Language is a body positive storytelling event held just before Gamebang on Oct 7th at Sanctuary. Body/Language is born from raw, vulnerability and a communal effort to create a safe empowering space to share our tales and possibly bare our tails. A few brave tellers of […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

Vetting Your Tops: a Workshop for Newbie bottoms by Mx. Daisy Chains & Mx. Byson Rynhart     Who is this class for? Newbs! Anyone that wants to build confidence in their own vetting & screening process Seasoned kinksters that want a refresher What you’ll learn How to assess your own desires How to communicate […]

Portland’s premier impact event.  Are you curious about spankings, floggings, canings, or kink in general? Are you an experienced player who wants to do something diabolical to your partner in public? This event is for you! Every second Thursday, Spanktuary features various educations, demonstrations, tastings, and others all intended to redden those cheeks! Learn skills […]