Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Portland Leather Alliance

Get ready to elevate your typical “Netflix and Chill” night with Stream N’ Steam—an immersive, erotic, and indulgent experience that combines at-home film flings with the excitement of public group play! You are invited to come take Sin-ema to provocative new heights with this exclusive, adults-only event! Stream N’ Steam is a bi-monthly event that […]

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back – with black lights! Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure…don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.   $10 cash/$12 CC cover     Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very […]

Ever wanted to try rope but felt overwhelmed by the technical world of “shibari”? This class is designed specifically for the bedroom. You’ll walk away knowing how to tie basic single columns and safely restrain a partner in common bed positions, how to check for physical comfort, and how to use bondage to turn up […]

Presented by Miss Josie Guess what? It’s finally time to put those winter layers in the “Bye Bye Bye” pile. We’re kicking off the month with a heavy dose of millennial nostalgia and even heavier impact. Dust off your velour tracksuits we’re taking it back to the era of dial-up, frosted tips, and butterfly clips […]