Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Boundless Rope Experience w/ Class on Rope to Enhance Connection and Intimacy (beginner friendly) Please join us for the Boundless Rope Experience (“BRE”) Schedule: Doors Open: 3pm Class: 3:30-4:30pm Meet & Greet Activity: 4:30-5:30pm Tie & Lab: 5:30-6:30pm Class Description: Rope for Connection and Intimacy Celebrate Valentine’s Day with a fun and playful class on building […]

Laughter is the best foreplay. Portland’s longest-running & filthiest monthly comedy showcase! Hosted by Amanda Lynn Deal 21+, $10 Two-drink minimum Featuring TBA   All door sales go to the comedians. Doors at 7 PM, show at 8 PM Please show the performers and those around you proper courtesy and do not heckle or chat […]

Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]

BDSM 101: Foundations For Newcomers Presents Rope 101 with ShesANatural! The Offering Strappado: A forward-facing strappado variation in which the forearms are bound together to create a unified point of presentation. The position naturally invites stillness, intentional posture, and the psychological experience of offering. This tie emphasizes structure through the center line while encouraging awareness […]