Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary’s monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women’s spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world.   We are a unique […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why Bi-Night when every night is kind of already Bi-Night? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]

YES COACH: Locker Room Fantasies Unleashed Friday, April 3rd • 8PM – Close Sanctuary, Portland Listen up team. You asked for it, and we finally made it happen. For this one night, YES COACH lands on a Friday. No Sunday alarms. No slipping out early because the week starts tomorrow. Just a full night to show up, […]

With Kinkfest  and other events, there are a lot of new people in town this weekend.  And a lot of ENM, Kinksters, polys, and others are out and about.  Come to Sanctuary for a no-pressure meet & greet before The Missing Kink. Relax on our couches, have bevy, use our furniture and meet others of […]

Get the kink you’ve been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]