Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Presented by DrRty_N3rdv3RT Body/Language is a body positive storytelling event giving the raw, vulnerability of bare skin a safe space empowering us to share our tails and possibly bare our tails. A few brave tellers of tails will be chosen from the crowd so arrive at 7 for your chance to sign up we will […]

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Sapphic mingle and play party 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back – with black lights! Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure…don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.   $10 cash/$12 CC cover     Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very […]

Looking to add a sharp, precise, and incredibly intense dynamic to your impact play? Canes offer a unique sensation that differs wildly from paddles or floggers, combining localized heat, deep thud, and a fierce sting. Because canes move quickly and deliver highly concentrated force, proper technique and safety are absolute musts. Whether you are completely […]

Presented by Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will have a […]

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]