Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Monday, EXOTIC MODEL DRINK & DRAW Live at Sanctuary in Portland & Online Fun Music – 5, 10 & 20 minute poses Bring your own art supplies or use ours. . DATE: Monday, May 25, 2026 TIME: 7:00 to 9:30pm Pacific time MODEL:  CyberP3t @cyberP3t tickets now… https://SanctuaryDD.eventbrite.com . IN PERSON $20 prepaid /$25 at […]

If you’re looking for an exciting way to explore your desires and connect with like-minded individuals, come join us at our upcoming PickUp Play Mixer by Kandy! Doors open at 630! First visit the lanyard station! Pick out a color coded lanyard to show others your Comfort level: 💚Green(GO!)- Ready to Negotiate 💛Yellow(Proceed w/ Caution) […]

Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]

💄Welcome to FEMPOWER 💄 hosted by Miss B and Princess Puta FemPower is Sanctuary’s night for Femdoms and Fem Tops to take the lead and be celebrated. This isn’t a typical kinky play party! Everything and everyone are centered on feminine power and female-led dynamics. Come to socialize, play, perform, watch, and sharpen your skills alongside other […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

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