Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Let’s Talk Astrology with Laicy Wester Heeeey!! Are you into astrology or curious about what it has to say about your relationship to touch? Join our very own charming, hilarious, local sex and intimacy astrologist Laicy Wester for a fun, light hearted evening exploring what the planets have to say about your body and the […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why Bi-Night when every night is kind of already Bi-Night? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]

Presented by SonjaKneelsome 🎉📚 Get ready to embrace your inner student (or teacher) at our September Kinky Queer ENM Meet and Greet! 🗓 Date: Friday, September 4th 🕕 Time: 6 PM to 8 PM 📍 Location: Sanctuary: 33 NW. 9th Ave., Portland, OR 97209 This month’s theme is all about “Back to School Night: Teachers Meet the Students.” So dust off […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Class Description: Scenes are made and broken by how you adapt to the unexpected. Sometimes this means heading off or recovering from a major problem, but much more often it’s small things. Did you notice that the other person is having a harder time than usual with one of their favorite toys? Why did you […]

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland’s sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream.” Whether you’re a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]