Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Presented by the spirit of Buckmaster, the Vampire Queen of the Underworld 🪩 Eat your heart out! 💔 #VampireOrgy #BloodyValentine @pdxsanctuary – True love never dies 💔 Celebrate undying love & undead lovers with a special Bloody Valentine edition of the cult classic party : Vampire 0rgy. 🔮#VampireOrgy is a fetish / filth / freak […]

Presented by  Yes Coach You’re cordially invited to Kink Codes at Sanctuary, where shadows dance and desires roam free under the cover of night. Step into a world veiled in mystery, where the secret language of gay hanky code is on display, and every color tells a story of passion and longing. Prepare to lose yourself in […]

Ren Fucking Faire Let’s face it everyone. We all know the venn diagram of people who are interested in kink and Renfaire is basically a circle. So join Kandy Goddess as she dons her Crown once again for: Ren fucking Faire hosted at Sanctuary PDX! This night at Sanctuary will be about letting your kinky […]

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]

Sound Bath with Kate Montgomery Thursday, March 5, 2026 7:00 – 9:00 pm Biofield Tuning is a form of sound therapy used to support emotional regulation. It is based on the idea that the body is surrounded by an electrical and magnetic energy field that holds our memories, life experiences, and unprocessed emotions. Using tuning […]

Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why Bi-Night when every night is kind of already Bi-Night? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]