Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland’s sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream.” Whether you’re a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]

Those that know, glow. Bathe yourself in ultraviolet glory! The world’s best black light party returns to Star Theater this time FOR TWO NIGHTS. We will have different DJs & performers each night. This event has sold out for more than a decade. Do not wait on getting tix. YOU MUST DRESS TO GLOW TO […]

Get the kink you’ve been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]

This is the official after party to Glow Job 2026. Only $10 for Glow Job attendees from Friday or Saturday.   Music on. Black Lights on. Featuring DJ Purple Rain Glow Job info here: https://www.facebook.com/events/4182090415444085 You must be dressed to glow to enter Glow Job or AfterGlow. Sanctuary is three blocks from Star Theater. Sanctuary is […]

Get ready to elevate your typical “Netflix and Chill” night with Stream N’ Steam—an immersive, erotic, and indulgent experience that combines at-home film flings with the excitement of public group play! You are invited to come take Sin-ema to provocative new heights with this exclusive, adults-only event! Stream N’ Steam is a bi-monthly event that […]

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or […]