Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

We have decided to postpone this event until October. After the Sapphic Discussion on the 28th, it became clear there are some seemingly incongruent ideas and overlapping groups to work through. In the end, we’d rather be right than fast. (Also — two of the hosts we planned to use are unavailable this weekend. That […]

Time your strikes to the beat of the music! Relax, Sing, & Play to your hearts content! Kandy has the worst kept secret ever- She fucking loves karaoke Join her while she makes her dreams come true, and KJ’s their first Karaoke set! Waiting for your turn to sing? Utilize the play spaces for the […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back – with black lights! Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure…don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.   $10 cash/$12 CC cover     Due to the intimate and vulnerable nature of interacting physically with humans one might not know very […]

Josie has been a host of Spanktuary since the beginning. Come and say goodbye to her last Spanktuary as host Josie: Spanktuary has been intertwined with my path in the kink world for almost seven years. To say it transformed my life is an understatement. The education, the community, and the people I’ve met here […]

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]