Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or […]

Game Bang: Eros’s Arrow Hosted by Squirm Our friends at Squirm are back with a mythical Valentine’s Day Game Bang takeover, inspired by the story of Eros and Psyche. Follow Eros’s arrow and experience a journey through desire, pleasure, and pain (the fun kind).  Expect a mix of low-pressure icebreakers, touch-optional activities, and carefully curated […]

Join Ron Swanson, MxJosiePosie, and Bloodluster for a journey through the ins and outs of fisting. We will cover principles of anatomy and technique, as well as essential tips & tricks for confidence with different holes. Appropriate for all levels. This is a lecture & demo class. In this class you will learn: Anatomy Preparation […]

Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will […]

🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]