Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker.   Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely.   $10 entry […]

Primal Perversion: Primalistic Pet Play w/ Lady V   Ever wanted to go ape shit? Invoke the lizard brain? Tired of being a civilized human? Connect with your inner beast through primalistic pet play!  — Tickets at the door only!!!  $15 cash, $17 cc ala carte ticketing, $40 cash including Creature Feature $42 CC — […]

PORTLAND! Calling all pets, primals, fur-esque, and plain ol’ kooky creatures. Creature Feature is here! Throw down with your friends and get frisky 🧸🐩🐾 This is an animal / creature-themed kink night, so please make an effort to dress to match the theme. This month we’re keeping it classy. Think summer, dogs, strict obedience.. maybe […]

Knotty Acts: Raining Cats & Dogs It’s raining, It’s pouring, The old man is… Purring?!   Come, sit, stay, and enjoy a spectacular evening of artistic engagement that is bound to have you howling for more!   Dig those dollars out of your purses so you can blow your load (of cash), as we commit […]

Sing like you’ve had two shots… and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland’s sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream.” Whether you’re a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]