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Get Lucky: Karaoke, Clowns & Kink
Get Lucky: Karaoke, Clowns & Kink
Presented by Lucky Join us at Sanctuary, your favorite sexy queer gathering spot, for an unforgettable night of fun, playful, and sensual expression! I'll be hosting an event that blends karaoke, clowns, and kink—so get ready for a wild evening. This time, we’re adding special performances throughout the night, alongside a variety of kink tastings […]
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Game Bang!
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]
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BroadCast
BroadCast
We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. We are a unique and […]
Bi Night
Bi Night
Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why "Bi-Night" when every night is kind of already "Bi-Night"? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]
1 event,
2 events,
The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]
1 event,
1 event,
Devils Doorbell: Fem Speed Dating & Play Party
Devils Doorbell: Fem Speed Dating & Play Party
Devils Doorbell: Speed Dating & Play Party Date: Second Tuesdays of the month Devils Doorbell is femme centered, queer friendly, speed dating & dance event for gender expansive folks all across the spectrum. For those who are looking to flirt, connect, and explore romantic or kinky chemistry with others who get it. Everyone here came […]
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Game Bang: Neon Nights
Game Bang: Neon Nights
Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.
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Spanktuary
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will […]
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Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
3 events,
Rope Arts Group PDX
Rope Arts Group PDX
We are proud to say, with air conditioning, heat, and an elevator in the space, that this is Portland’s only fully accessible rope jam. This location is a space that is designed to be inclusive and equal for everyone, regardless of accessibility needs. And we hold a beginners class at the start of every event. […]
Laughrodisiac
Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
House Party
House Party
Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]
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Steam & Stream
Steam & Stream
Get ready to elevate your typical “Netflix and Chill” night with “Stream N’ Steam”—an immersive, erotic, and indulgent experience that combines at-home film flings with the excitement of public group play! You are invited to come take Sin-ema to provocative new heights with this exclusive, adults-only event! “Stream N’ Steam” is a bi-monthly event (every […]
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Game Bang: Pajamas
Game Bang: Pajamas
What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.
1 event,
FUNGEON: A QTBIPOC CIRCUS KINK NIGHT & DANCE PARTY
FUNGEON: A QTBIPOC CIRCUS KINK NIGHT & DANCE PARTY
Honk Honk! It’s time for FUNGEON (Fun Dungeon) a QTBIPOC Kink and Dance Party for Clowns, Mimes and all circus folk alike. This party is open to all respectful humans. Hosted by Witch Prince Asylum and Anna Nicole Spliff If a clown gives you head is it called Big Top? There will be pop up […]
2 events,
Jiffy Kink: Speed Date
Jiffy Kink: Speed Date
Presented by Mx Bliss Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look like you're headed out to a sports […]
Jiffy Kink: Pride
Jiffy Kink: Pride
Show us your pride! Whether queer, trans, BIPOC, BDSM, Poly, or an ally, dress up in pride colors and flag your hankies. Let's see all your rainbows, bandanas and ways you represent your identity and support those in marginalized communities. Donation proceeds from glow bracelets this month will go to support Prism Health! This is […]
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Yes Coach + Stank Pride Party Portland
Yes Coach + Stank Pride Party Portland
A filthy Pride crossover you won’t forget. He walked in just as the pit contest was ending — sweat dripping, crowd roaring. The winner stood center room, arms up, soaked in praise and stank. Their eyes locked. No words. Just a nod, a grab, a push against the nearest wall. Jock peeled down, hole already […]
2 events,
BDSM 101: Foundations
BDSM 101: Foundations
Topics TBA Come to the Foundations For Newcomers class series and have all your questions answered. You just may leave with some hands on instruction, practice and the confidence to do the thing! Anyone may attend however this monthly series of classes is designed with the new person to kink and community in mind. These […]
Oh My Goth
Oh My Goth
Presented by Faye By popular demand, get goth, emo, scene, and truly hate the sun! Dance and go medieval on that ass! Featuring DJ William The Bloody $10 Cash/$12 CC in goth attire — including anything black or kinda spooky. $15/17 street clothes. Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity.
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Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]
1 event,
50 Shades of STFU
50 Shades of STFU
Mistress Viola leads the premier femdom event in the US. Every fourth Thursday. Deets TBA
1 event,
Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
1 event,
TranscenDance
TranscenDance
Presented by Hellhound Come dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary's Trans kink party - Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches, and dance floor. Kink, sex, and dancing encouraged. Consent is mandatory. Cash: $10 before 10pm, $20 after CC: $12 before 10pm, $22 after […]
1 event,
Game Bang!
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]
1 event,
1 event,
Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
2 events,
The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]