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Devils Doorbell: Sapphic Play Party

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🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Sapphic mingle and play party 🔔 Hosted by Lucki

When: Second Tuesday of every month
Doors: 7:00 PM
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth

Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or somewhere deliciously in between.
This event is designed for those who don’t fit neatly into the cisnormative binary and don’t want to date like they do either. Everyone here arrives with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others who get it.
This space is explicitly gender-inclusive.
We warmly welcome trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone who does not identify as a cis man.

đźš« Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted.

If you’re tired of coffee dates that feel like polite networking… If you’re craving chemistry beyond “gal pal” energy…If you’ve ever worried about misreading signals or crossing a line just by wanting something deeper, sexier, or more intentional.
You’re not alone. And you’re in the right place.

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming, consent-forward environment
• 5-minute speed-dating rounds guided by playful, flirty, and lightly kinky icebreaker questions
• Space for genuine connection without guesswork
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually during rounds)
• Time after the rounds to mingle, dance, or explore Sanctuary’s playrooms

Whether you’re newly exploring queer connection or deeply rooted in it, whether you’re seeking romance, hookups, or community, Devil’s Doorbell is a place to show up fully and be seen.

About the Host:
Lucki is a queer/pan emcee, connector, and curator of playful, affirming spaces for the gender-expansive community. With warmth, humor, and intention, Lucki guides the room so flirting feels easy and authenticity feels safe.

Come curious. Leave connected.
đź”” The doorbell is ringing.

Venue Info:

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

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