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Portland Leather Alliance: Black and Blue (Day 2)
Portland Leather Alliance: Black and Blue (Day 2)
The PLA is excited to announce that the Black and Blue party is back! And this year it is a 2-day membership appreciation party! Come join us to ring in the new year a few days early on Saturday December 28th AND Sunday December 29th. Play, socialize, get a tasting, check out amazing vendors, and […]
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New Years Eve 2024: Fancy Cats! (SOLD OUT)
New Years Eve 2024: Fancy Cats! (SOLD OUT)
THIS EVENT IS SOLD OUT. Fancy Cats! Celebrate 2025 by petting new friends and old. "I gave my cat a bath the other day...they love it. He sat there, he enjoyed it, it was fun for me. The fur would stick to my tongue, but other than that..." - Steve Martin New Years Eve […]
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BroadCast
BroadCast
We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. We are a unique and […]
Bi Night
Bi Night
Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why "Bi-Night" when every night is kind of already "Bi-Night"? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]
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Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
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The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life.Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches @PlayfulGames will provide rope tastings.@GuildInPDX will provide violet wand tastings, from light to full scene.Tastings will be held in the front room on a first-come, first-serve basis for two hours or until the tasters arms fall off. […]
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]
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The Woof of Wall Street
The Woof of Wall Street
Presented by Yes Coach 🚨 MANDATORY MEETING ALERT 🚨 📂 The Woof of Wall Street is here to disrupt your business-as-usual routine. Join us for a corporate takeover at Sanctuary on January 5th from 6 PM to 11 PM. 🗂️ Your hosts, Tucker Max & JP Hardy, have prepared the ultimate networking experience — where […]
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Get Lucky: Karaoke, Clowns & Kink – CANCELLED
Get Lucky: Karaoke, Clowns & Kink – CANCELLED
THIS EVENT IS CANCELLED!! The host tested positive for the flu today and so in an abundance of caution, we are cancelling this event until February. Sorry for the inconvenience. Presented by Lucky Join us at Sanctuary, your favorite sexy queer gathering spot, for an unforgettable night of fun, playful, and sensual expression! […]
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Game Bang: Neon Nights
Game Bang: Neon Nights
Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.
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Spanktuary
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will […]
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Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
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Rope Arts Group PDX
Rope Arts Group PDX
We are proud to say, with air conditioning, heat, and an elevator in the space, that this is Portland’s only fully accessible rope jam. This location is a space that is designed to be inclusive and equal for everyone, regardless of accessibility needs. And we hold a beginners class at the start of every event. […]
Laughrodisiac
Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
House Party
House Party
Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]
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Class: Sexy Intersections: Anti-Racism and Sex Positivity
Class: Sexy Intersections: Anti-Racism and Sex Positivity
Presented by Sex Positive Portland Intersectional Anti-Racism and Sex Positivity: Navigating Difference in Play Spaces This anti-racism class helps folks think about the many power dynamics that affect us when we interact in a community. It’s a good space for beginners who are eager to learn. We’ll think about our many identities and how they […]
Stream and Steam
Stream and Steam
Get ready to elevate your typical “Netflix and Chill” night with “Stream N’ Steam”—an immersive, erotic, and indulgent experience that combines at-home film flings with the excitement of public group play! You are invited to come take Sin-ema to provocative new heights with this exclusive, adults-only event! “Stream N’ Steam” is a bi-monthly event (every 2nd […]
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Shy Bi Babe: How to Flirt with Bi Girls Like You
Shy Bi Babe: How to Flirt with Bi Girls Like You
Why can’t I flirt in gay? I want a girlfriend and can’t connect… How do I even get started?! If you’re having trouble, I’m here to tell you, it’s not just you. Let’s talk about the obstacles women face finding each other… especially the bi ones! ESPECIALLY the ones who are blooming later! Especially the […]
Devils Doorbell: Girls Only Play Party
Devils Doorbell: Girls Only Play Party
Back by popular demand! In the words of Juicee Froot: This is an all girls party and no boys can come. This is a free-form play party. And remember that no matter what happens... some incel SadMad with a lonely dick will be mad about it. Play rooms are open. Normal rules apply. Featuring Dj […]
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Game Bang: Pajamas
Game Bang: Pajamas
What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.
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Topping and Dominating for Bottoms (and folks newer to topping)
Topping and Dominating for Bottoms (and folks newer to topping)
Are you interested in Topping/Dominating but don’t know where to start? Are you a bottom but want to explore life on the other side of the slash? Are you a switch with limited experience topping? Let me help you to find and release your inner monster in a box, especially if she’s giggly. This class […]
Fungeon
Fungeon
Honk Honk! It’s time for FUNGEON (Fun Dungeon) a QTBIPOC Kink and Dance party for Clowns, Mimes and all circus folk alike. Third Thursday’s at Sanctuary Club 9PM until bar Close Hosted by Witch Prince Asylum and Anna Nicole Spliff Pop up tastings, vendors, games, performances and look contests with prizes! PRICE ALL NIGHT PER […]
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Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
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Jiffy Kink: Speed Date
Jiffy Kink: Speed Date
Presented by Mx Bliss Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look like you're headed out to a sports […]
Jiffy Kink: Gods & Monsters
Jiffy Kink: Gods & Monsters
Dress up as your favorite god, or monster, or both! Of course fetish, all black, and/or clean and pressed is welcome, but dressing us makes me happy! This is the place to come and meet other kink-friendly folks and catch up with old friends and play partners. Let's celebrate and embrace all the sexy things […]
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Self Defense Class: Personal Safety Workshop
Self Defense Class: Personal Safety Workshop
presented by Rose City Self Defense After the election, we noticed an uptick in poor behavior and entitlement from a certain type of person. This class is not designed to make you a ninja but may help you in some situations. This workshop is designed for all genders to introduce adults to a variety of […]
Oh My Goth
Oh My Goth
Presented by Faye By popular demand, get goth, emo, scene, and truly hate the sun! Dance and go medieval on that ass! Featuring DJ William The Bloody $10 Cash/$12 CC in goth attire — including anything black or kinda spooky. $15/17 street clothes. Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity.
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The Downtown Munch
The Downtown Munch
A monthly discussion of all things kink! Hosted by MaeveMcBride TOPIC: Informed Kinking: Vetting, Limits, Risk Profiles, and Negotiation Getting the kinky play that you want involves knowing your desires, knowing your boundaries. risk profiles, and limits AND communicating them effectively. In this class we will cover the topics one can consider when developing their own […]
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Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We’re not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend’s house parties… but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! …where we play […]
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50 Shades of STFU
50 Shades of STFU
50 Shades of STFU - FancyPants Produced by Mistress Viola, 50 Shades of STFU is a kinky play party and social event for femdoms and femme tops and the individuals who serve and worship them. We have been home at Sanctuary since 2017. January is the birthday month of Mistress Viola so the annual […]
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Generation X: Meet & Moan
Generation X: Meet & Moan
Are you Generation X? Come meet people who also experienced life before cell phones, the internet, and whining. Drink specials that remind you of VHS, arcades, and roller skates. We're going to do what we do best. Bitch about everything that isnt Gen X. Boomers, Millenials, GenZ - all on the table! The Greatest Generation? […]
Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
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Eighth Anniversary: Slut Olympics
Eighth Anniversary: Slut Olympics
Sanctuary wants to celebrate its Eighth Anniversary with you! *If you feel marginalized by recent executive orders and general US bullshit, simply say “Fuck Trump” at the door to waive entry. Sanctuary welcomes the world-famous Slut Olympics from Burning Man as featured in Cosmopolitan, The Miami Herald, and many more. We will hold two events […]
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TranscenDance: Future (cyberpunk play party)
TranscenDance: Future (cyberpunk play party)
Cum dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary's Trans kink party - Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. This January we are bringing in the new year by celebrating the hope of a wonderful future for trans people and with fun cyberpunk attire! Featuring DJ Swearwolf and DJ SoraKat Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard […]
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Gallery Girls: Drink & Draw
Gallery Girls: Drink & Draw
Presented by Gallery Girls PDX ABOUT THIS EVENT In Portland & Online (Live Streamed or Recorded) with live models! Fun Music - 5, 10 & 25 min poses We will also ZOOM the Event LIVE! DATE: Tuesday, January 28, 2025 TIME: 7:00 to 10:00pm Pacific time IN PERSON: $20 prepaid / $25 on the day […]
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Game Bang
Game Bang
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]
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Get This Party Started! – Event Hosting & Community Organizing w/ Lady V
Get This Party Started! – Event Hosting & Community Organizing w/ Lady V
Presented by Lady V Includes access to Creature Feature (ft. BITE CLUB) after! BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN YOUR COMMUNITY. Community building is a vital part of keeping our various sex-positive, kink, and queer communities connected and help them to heal and stay hopeful! Your voice and actions can create a unique, […]
Creature Feature w/Bite Club
Creature Feature w/Bite Club
PORTLAND! Calling all pets, primals, fur-esque, and plain ol' kooky creatures. Creature Feature is here! Has the state of the world got you down? Want to let out some frustration in a healthy, destructive way? Come unleash your inner kaiju and connect with your community! This is an animal / creature-themed kink night, so please […]
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Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
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The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Popping Questions: The Sexiest Pub Quiz
Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland's sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream." Whether you're a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]
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Eighth Anniversary: Slut Olympics
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