We welcome you to BroadCast: Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. BroadCast is a unique and lively circle of support where […]

Tonight we celebrate bisexual humans! We hear it constantly: Being bi can be hard. How do you make the approach? Are they just being friendly? How might it affect my other partners? How will I be judged? This night is for bi men, bi women, and non-binary people who have bucked the system and made […]

Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]

Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.

Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.

Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]

Presented by Sky & Bethany! Is your kink being buried in fuzz and wagging your tail at a playmate? Do you like to bite your lip as you feel your dom’s claw rake your quivering skin? Maybe you would like to activate your senses with an electric wand, get tied, or explore the sensual unknown […]

What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.

Heyyy Girl.... A high fem dance  & kink party. Dressed fem or NB: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12/$22 Dressed like a bro: $30 Celebrate fem and NB artists and kinksters. Each month, we will feature a different artist from 1130-mid. September: Fergie! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on […]

Presented by MX Bliss Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Are you an introvert and mortified at the prospect of introducing yourself or asking people to play? Mx Bliss will be there to hold your hands and […]

The real holiday is Wednesday night. No work means plenty of play. We will have games, dancing and more! Welcome to Game Bang! ...where we play a variety of sexy games while making connections with a variety of sexy people! Most games at Game Bang! Feature stripping, cuddling, kissing, stroking, and all manner of fun […]

Come join the DOMINATIVITY scene at perhaps the most non-traditional winter kink-ibration! Don your favorite gay apparel, fetishwear, humiliating sweaters, or holiday jammies and enjoy all of the usual STFU femdom festivities you have come to know and love. We had to cancel our December event last year due to ice, so let's do this […]