Events

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Sapphic mingle and play party 🔔 Hosted by Lucki

When: Second Tuesday of every month
Doors: 7:00 PM
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth

Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or somewhere deliciously in between.
This event is designed for those who don’t fit neatly into the cisnormative binary and don’t want to date like they do either. Everyone here arrives with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others who get it.
This space is explicitly gender-inclusive.
We warmly welcome trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone who does not identify as a cis man.

đźš« Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted.

If you’re tired of coffee dates that feel like polite networking… If you’re craving chemistry beyond “gal pal” energy…If you’ve ever worried about misreading signals or crossing a line just by wanting something deeper, sexier, or more intentional.
You’re not alone. And you’re in the right place.

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming, consent-forward environment
• 5-minute speed-dating rounds guided by playful, flirty, and lightly kinky icebreaker questions
• Space for genuine connection without guesswork
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually during rounds)
• Time after the rounds to mingle, dance, or explore Sanctuary’s playrooms

Whether you’re newly exploring queer connection or deeply rooted in it, whether you’re seeking romance, hookups, or community, Devil’s Doorbell is a place to show up fully and be seen.

About the Host:
Lucki is a queer/pan emcee, connector, and curator of playful, affirming spaces for the gender-expansive community. With warmth, humor, and intention, Lucki guides the room so flirting feels easy and authenticity feels safe.

Come curious. Leave connected.
đź”” The doorbell is ringing.

Venue Info:

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki

When: Second Tuesday of every month
Doors: 7:00 PM
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth

Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or somewhere deliciously in between.
This event is designed for those who don’t fit neatly into the cisnormative binary and don’t want to date like they do either. Everyone here arrives with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others who get it.
This space is explicitly gender-inclusive.
We warmly welcome trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone who does not identify as a cis man.

đźš« Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted.

If you’re tired of coffee dates that feel like polite networking… If you’re craving chemistry beyond “gal pal” energy…If you’ve ever worried about misreading signals or crossing a line just by wanting something deeper, sexier, or more intentional.
You’re not alone. And you’re in the right place.

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming, consent-forward environment
• 5-minute speed-dating rounds guided by playful, flirty, and lightly kinky icebreaker questions
• Space for genuine connection without guesswork
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually during rounds)
• Time after the rounds to mingle, dance, or explore Sanctuary’s playrooms

Whether you’re newly exploring queer connection or deeply rooted in it, whether you’re seeking romance, hookups, or community, Devil’s Doorbell is a place to show up fully and be seen.

About the Host:
Lucki is a queer/pan emcee, connector, and curator of playful, affirming spaces for the gender-expansive community. With warmth, humor, and intention, Lucki guides the room so flirting feels easy and authenticity feels safe.

Come curious. Leave connected.
đź”” The doorbell is ringing.

Venue Info:

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki

When: Second Tuesday of every month
Doors: 7:00 PM
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth

Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or somewhere deliciously in between.
This event is designed for those who don’t fit neatly into the cisnormative binary and don’t want to date like they do either. Everyone here arrives with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others who get it.
This space is explicitly gender-inclusive.
We warmly welcome trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone who does not identify as a cis man.

đźš« Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted.

If you’re tired of coffee dates that feel like polite networking… If you’re craving chemistry beyond “gal pal” energy…If you’ve ever worried about misreading signals or crossing a line just by wanting something deeper, sexier, or more intentional.
You’re not alone. And you’re in the right place.

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming, consent-forward environment
• 5-minute speed-dating rounds guided by playful, flirty, and lightly kinky icebreaker questions
• Space for genuine connection without guesswork
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually during rounds)
• Time after the rounds to mingle, dance, or explore Sanctuary’s playrooms

Whether you’re newly exploring queer connection or deeply rooted in it, whether you’re seeking romance, hookups, or community, Devil’s Doorbell is a place to show up fully and be seen.

About the Host:
Lucki is a queer/pan emcee, connector, and curator of playful, affirming spaces for the gender-expansive community. With warmth, humor, and intention, Lucki guides the room so flirting feels easy and authenticity feels safe.

Come curious. Leave connected.
đź”” The doorbell is ringing.

Venue Info:

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

Devils Doorbell: Speed Dating & Play Party
Date: Second Tuesdays of the month

Devils Doorbell is femme centered, queer friendly, speed dating & dance event for gender expansive folks all across the spectrum. For those who are looking to flirt, connect, and explore romantic or kinky chemistry with others who get it. Everyone here came with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others outside the cisnormative binary.
This space is explicitly gender inclusive—welcoming to trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone else who doesn’t identify as a cis man.
Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted. No you may not “just pretend” and get by the door. You must present as non-cis.

Tired of coffee dates and “gal pal” vibes when you’re craving something more?
Worried about misreading signals—or ruining a friendship—just because you want to explore something deeper, sexier, or more romantic?
You’re not alone. It can be confusing, awkward, even emotionally draining.

Let Sanctuary help make it easier.

Whether you’ve always been into queer connections or you’re newly exploring, whether you’re looking for romance, hookups, or community—this is a space to show up authentically and be seen.

Doors: 7 p.m.
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming environment
• 3-minute rounds guided by fun, kinky icebreaker questions
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually for the game)
• A chance to meet new people and maybe leave with a spark—or at least a few new queer friends

After speed dating, you can mingle with your new friends, use the playrooms or dance to our DJ

About Lucky:
Lucky is a queer/pan jack of many trades, master of some, and emcee who curates playful, affirming spaces for the gender expansive community. They also host GET LUCKY on first Tuesdays—a variety show featuring karaoke, clowns, kink, aerial acts, and more.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

Devils Doorbell: Speed Dating & Play Party
Date: Second Tuesdays of the month

Devils Doorbell is femme centered, queer friendly, speed dating & dance event for gender expansive folks all across the spectrum. For those who are looking to flirt, connect, and explore romantic or kinky chemistry with others who get it. Everyone here came with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others outside the cisnormative binary.
This space is explicitly gender inclusive—welcoming to trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone else who doesn’t identify as a cis man.
Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted. No you may not “just pretend” and get by the door. You must present as non-cis.

Tired of coffee dates and “gal pal” vibes when you’re craving something more?
Worried about misreading signals—or ruining a friendship—just because you want to explore something deeper, sexier, or more romantic?
You’re not alone. It can be confusing, awkward, even emotionally draining.

Let Sanctuary help make it easier.

Whether you’ve always been into queer connections or you’re newly exploring, whether you’re looking for romance, hookups, or community—this is a space to show up authentically and be seen.

Doors: 7 p.m.
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming environment
• 3-minute rounds guided by fun, kinky icebreaker questions
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually for the game)
• A chance to meet new people and maybe leave with a spark—or at least a few new queer friends

After speed dating, you can mingle with your new friends, use the playrooms or dance to our DJ

About Lucky:
Lucky is a queer/pan jack of many trades, master of some, and emcee who curates playful, affirming spaces for the gender expansive community. They also host GET LUCKY on first Tuesdays—a variety show featuring karaoke, clowns, kink, aerial acts, and more.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

Devils Doorbell: Speed Dating & Play Party
Date: Second Tuesdays of the month

Devils Doorbell is femme centered, queer friendly, speed dating & dance event for gender expansive folks all across the spectrum. For those who are looking to flirt, connect, and explore romantic or kinky chemistry with others who get it. Everyone here came with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others outside the cisnormative binary.
This space is explicitly gender inclusive—welcoming to trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone else who doesn’t identify as a cis man.
Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted. No you may not “just pretend” and get by the door. You must present as non-cis.

Tired of coffee dates and “gal pal” vibes when you’re craving something more?
Worried about misreading signals—or ruining a friendship—just because you want to explore something deeper, sexier, or more romantic?
You’re not alone. It can be confusing, awkward, even emotionally draining.

Let Sanctuary help make it easier.

Whether you’ve always been into queer connections or you’re newly exploring, whether you’re looking for romance, hookups, or community—this is a space to show up authentically and be seen.

Doors: 7 p.m.
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming environment
• 3-minute rounds guided by fun, kinky icebreaker questions
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually for the game)
• A chance to meet new people and maybe leave with a spark—or at least a few new queer friends

After speed dating, you can mingle with your new friends, use the playrooms or dance to our DJ

About Lucky:
Lucky is a queer/pan jack of many trades, master of some, and emcee who curates playful, affirming spaces for the gender expansive community. They also host GET LUCKY on first Tuesdays—a variety show featuring karaoke, clowns, kink, aerial acts, and more.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA accessible, anti-racist, and proudly diverse.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

Devils Doorbell: Speed Dating & Play Party
Date: Second Tuesdays of the month

Devils Doorbell is femme centered, queer friendly, speed dating & dance event for gender expansive folks all across the spectrum. For those who are looking to flirt, connect, and explore romantic or kinky chemistry with others who get it. Everyone here came with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others outside the cisnormative binary.
This space is explicitly gender inclusive—welcoming to trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone else who doesn’t identify as a cis man.
Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted. No you may not “just pretend” and get by the door. You must present as non-cis.

Tired of coffee dates and “gal pal” vibes when you’re craving something more?
Worried about misreading signals—or ruining a friendship—just because you want to explore something deeper, sexier, or more romantic?
You’re not alone. It can be confusing, awkward, even emotionally draining.

Let Sanctuary help make it easier.

Whether you’ve always been into queer connections or you’re newly exploring, whether you’re looking for romance, hookups, or community—this is a space to show up authentically and be seen.

Doors: 7 p.m.
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming environment
• 3-minute rounds guided by fun, kinky icebreaker questions
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually for the game)
• A chance to meet new people and maybe leave with a spark—or at least a few new queer friends

After speed dating, you can mingle with your new friends, use the playrooms or dance to our DJ

About Lucky:
Lucky is a queer/pan jack of many trades, master of some, and emcee who curates playful, affirming spaces for the gender expansive community. They also host GET LUCKY on first Tuesdays—a variety show featuring karaoke, clowns, kink, aerial acts, and more.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA accessible, anti-racist, and proudly diverse.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

Devils Doorbell: Speed Dating & Play Party
Date: Second Tuesdays of the month

Devils Doorbell is femme centered, queer friendly, speed dating & dance event for gender expansive folks all across the spectrum. For those who are looking to flirt, connect, and explore romantic or kinky chemistry with others who get it. Everyone here came with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others outside the cisnormative binary.
This space is explicitly gender inclusive—welcoming to trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone else who doesn’t identify as a cis man.
Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted. No you may not “just pretend” and get by the door. You must present as non-cis.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tired of coffee dates and “gal pal” vibes when you’re craving something more?
Worried about misreading signals—or ruining a friendship—just because you want to explore something deeper, sexier, or more romantic?
You’re not alone. It can be confusing, awkward, even emotionally draining.

Let Sanctuary help make it easier.

Whether you’ve always been into queer connections or you’re newly exploring, whether you’re looking for romance, hookups, or community—this is a space to show up authentically and be seen.

 

 

 

 

 

Doors: 7 p.m.
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming environment
• 3-minute rounds guided by fun, kinky icebreaker questions
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually for the game)
• A chance to meet new people and maybe leave with a spark—or at least a few new queer friends

After speed dating, you can mingle with your new friends, use the playrooms or dance to our DJ

About Lucky:
Lucky is a queer/pan jack of many trades, master of some, and emcee who curates playful, affirming spaces for the gender expansive community. They also host GET LUCKY on first Tuesdays—a variety show featuring karaoke, clowns, kink, aerial acts, and more.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA accessible, anti-racist, and proudly diverse.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

Devils Doorbell: Speed Dating & Play Party
Date: Second Tuesdays of the month

Devils Doorbell is femme centered, queer friendly, speed dating & dance event for gender expansive folks all across the spectrum. For those who are looking to flirt, connect, and explore romantic or kinky chemistry with others who get it. Everyone here came with curiosity, openness, and the desire to meet others outside the cisnormative binary.
This space is explicitly gender inclusive—welcoming to trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, intersex, agender, butch, femme, masc, softboi, stud, dyke, and anyone else who doesn’t identify as a cis man.
Cis men: this event is not for you. You will not be admitted. No you may not “just pretend” and get by the door. You must present as non-cis.

Tired of coffee dates and “gal pal” vibes when you’re craving something more?
Worried about misreading signals—or ruining a friendship—just because you want to explore something deeper, sexier, or more romantic?
You’re not alone. It can be confusing, awkward, even emotionally draining.

Let Sanctuary help make it easier.

Whether you’ve always been into queer connections or you’re newly exploring, whether you’re looking for romance, hookups, or community—this is a space to show up authentically and be seen.

Doors: 7 p.m.
Cost: $10 cash / $12 card

What to expect:
• A welcoming, affirming environment
• 3-minute rounds guided by fun, kinky icebreaker questions
• Couples are welcome (please rotate individually for the game)
• A chance to meet new people and maybe leave with a spark—or at least a few new queer friends

After speed dating, you can mingle with your new friends, use the playrooms or dance to our DJ

About Lucky:
Lucky is a queer/pan jack of many trades, master of some, and emcee who curates playful, affirming spaces for the gender expansive community. They also host GET LUCKY on first Tuesdays—a variety show featuring karaoke, clowns, kink, aerial acts, and more.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA accessible, anti-racist, and proudly diverse.

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.