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🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds.

🍑 What to expect:

  • We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques.
  • Each participant is given a postcard with clear rules and a consent statement that everyone reads aloud together.
  • Tops are allowed to use only their hands to spank only the butt cheeks of the bottoms for one minute.
  • Bottoms show each new top 1 to 5 fingers to indicate their desired sensation level, with 5 fingers indicating intense sensation.
  • Bottoms decide if their butt cheeks are bare or clothed. Bring coverage so you have that option.
  • Tops decide if their hands are bare or gloved. Bring gloves so you have that option.
  • We are all hands and bottoms. Expect to play with any gender.
  • Anyone may opt out of a round for any reason.
  • Monitors have the right to ask anyone to stop playing for any reason.

🍑 If you are 21+, and want to either practice your spanking or experience spanking, this is your event! People who prefer to watch the fun are just as welcome.

🍑 This event is followed by Naked Karaoke (and is all one price).

🍑 Sanctuary is LGBTQIA+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

🍑 $25/27 CC at door (and includes admission to Naked Karaoke). No effort, no entry. Be intentional. Optional: Tops bring gloves.

🍑 Hosted by Violet (KinkFest Director Emeritus: 2024, 2023, 2022)

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