COSTUME PARTY EDITION!
Be as creative as possible with your costumes! Choose something unique to spark conversations!
If you’re looking for an exciting way to explore your desires and connect with like-minded individuals, come join us at our upcoming PickUp Play Mixer by Kandy!
Doors open at 7pm!
First, fill out a name tag and pick a lanyard to show others your Comfort level:
💚Green(GO!)- Ready to Negotiate
💛Yellow(Proceed w/ Caution) – Unsure of what I’m looking for
❤️Red(STOP)- Let Me make the first move
Then attach a tag to show others your desired Role:
🩷Pink- Top
🧡Orange- Bottom
💙Blue- Switch
Starting at 8pm you’ll be separated into groups of 6 and given discussion prompts, ranging from fun and kinky, to somewhat personal. With each new prompt you’ll be assigned a new group, allowing you to meet new people and spark connections in a fun and relaxed setting.
After an hour of mixing, it’s dungeon time! This is a fantastic opportunity to dive into spontaneous scenes, where you can unleash your creativity and experience the thrill of the moment. Whether you’re a seasoned kinkster or just curious to learn more, you’ll find a welcoming community eager to share and engage in new experiences. Don’t miss out on the chance to indulge in the playful side of kink!
IMPORTANT NOTE: PLEASE READ
EVERYONE flies solo during the Mixing portion of the evening.. Did you bring a date or a friend? Want to stay together during the conversation hour? I do not typically allow this except under special circumstances. I ask everyone who intends to participate in the conversation hour do so as an individual, and not as part of a couple.
If you need an accommodation: Please reach out before the event, or come talk to me before the beginning of the mixer portion.
Would you like to be a group leader? Sign up here to be an Anchor Human!
Would you like to submit a question for a chance to have it discussed? Submit it here!
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1LRuO4GPPNAGFnsyo0QBk_rm-voqvTF9-8fMLq217db0/edit?usp=drivesdk
Door Fee for Mixer: $20 cash, $22 Card. Dungeon play starts at 9pm
Dress code: Put in effort! Dress to impress! If you are not intentional with your wardrobe you will be turned away. Hoodies/ sweatpants/ work clothes/solid color T shirts Ect should all be avoided.
Per Sanctuary Rules:
- There are no knives, guns, urine, scat, blood, fire, wax, race, or breath play allowed.
- Be kind to other beings. Respect each other and people’s personal space. If someone says no to play, do NOT ask them again.
- Please listen to and respect your Host/Dungeon Monitors.
- There are no cell phones or photography allowed within the dungeon. Please exit to the stairwell to use your phone
Event specific rules:
- All decisions made by Party Host and Event Staff are FINAL!!
- RESPECT THE LANYARDS! -Attendees wearing ❤️Red Lanyards should not be solicited under any circumstances. If they want to engage with you, it is their responsibility to initiate.
- If you choose a 💚Green Lanyard you are consenting to others approaching you and asking immediately to negotiate a scene. You may also be asked to engage in casual sexual encounters, or group sex. If you are not comfortable being approached in this way, or have difficulty setting firm boundaries, please select a 💛Yellow or ❤️Red Lanyard
- No is a complete sentence regardless of what Lanyard color attendees are wearing. If anyone says no, in any way shape or form, disengage the interaction, and move on. Anything other than an enthusiastic yes is a no. Do not approach this individual again for the rest of the evening. Breaking this rule could lead to you being asked to leave with no refund of your door fee.
- Do not pressure any attendee to share more than they are comfortable sharing. Discussion prompts are suggestions ONLY! If the discussion prompt makes you uncomfortable feel free to pick a topic at random when it is your turn to speak.
Sanctuary is a 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racist establishment that celebrates diversity. Leave any bigotry at the door.
General disclaimer: This is a public event. Attendees have not been vetted in any way. Play at your own risk. I suggest completing a negotiation worksheet (copies will be provided) before engaging in play with any new connections.
Note: If you have mobility issues that stop you from standing or walking across a large room multiple times in an hour, please let us know when you check in! I have accommodations available to make this event accessible to everyone!
