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đź’„ Welcome to FEMPOWER đź’„

A bold, new experience hosted by Alaska Moon Kat

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This night is OURS. This is a space where we lead, command, and create the night we desire. Fempower is the way the world should be, a celebration of all things fem — dominant, creative, radiant, kinky, and free.

Soft Topping Kink Night at Fempower

Expect:

  • đź’‹ Dedicated play spaces designed for exploration, expression, and consent-driven kink

  • 🍓 Tastings where fems take the lead — and subs take what’s given.

    • 8:30-10 Sissification/Feminization

      Fem Tops, this one’s for you; let us help you look the part! Beauty experts Goddess Ey-Anna and Mistress Molotov are here to bring you fully into your dominant feminine self. If you’ve never felt the quiet confidence that make-up can bring to your life, these empowering femme tops will lovingly bring you to a point of beauty; one previously unknown to you. Let them make you up into a certified Hot Bitch™ for the night or, better yet, bring your own supplies and let them teach you the way of the world with your own tools.
      Don’t have your own make-up? Don’t worry; we will have a limited number of palettes and brushes that you can be sent home with after learning the how-tos; that way you can leave the night with confidence for painting your own face flawlessly for the future. Embrace true vulnerability as you relinquish control of your face as they paint you for the goddesses. Already know how to do your own make-up? Then bring in a submissive (or pull a lucky one from the crowd) and let them teach you how to gently dominate another into your ultimate sissified canvas.
      For the subservient and submissives: if our beauty experts have free time, it’s your opportunity to get sissified! Please note the priority for these sessions is aimed at trans and non-binary folks looking for gender-confirming instruction and for femmes who want to learn to sissify their subs.
      Supplies to bring: eye make-up (including shadow palettes, liners, and mascara), tools (including brushes & sponges), and basic concealer/foundation.
       
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    • 10:30-mid Praise Kinks with Eros.  Tonight we offer a particularly exquisite kink tasting. One crafted for you to feel seen, celebrated, and tenderly unraveled. Meet @Artist_Eros (FetLife) – a powerhouse of perception with eyes that pierce the soul and words to set the heart aflutter and body aquiver. With a nurturer’s touch, Eros’ bewitching words draw the art of Praise into full bloom. Her tastings are no mere compliments; they’re incantations of adoration. Those that would fall under her spell will find a focused connection, intentional presence, and the kind of affirmation whose unseen marks linger longer than any rope burn. Now, whether you’re praise-curious or a full-blown good-girl-gone-feral, you’re invited to be doted upon, devoured, and deliciously adored. Come forward and let Eros show you the power of being told just how exquisite you truly are.

  • 🔥 Live performances to educate, but mostly entertain

  • đź’ˇ Interactive skill-sharing moments to boost your confidence and top fluency


đź–¤DRESS CODE

The spirit of this event is to celebrate fem tops: play the game, win the prize.

You are part of the scene the moment you walk in.

👢Fem Tops: Express your dominance however YOU define it — leather, latex, glam, goth, sheer, shining, or dripping in glitter and threat. The gaze is yours to control.

đź’„Subs: This is an intentional community. Bottoms should dress accordingly. This CAN be fem, but does not have to be. You can wear fetish attire, collars, leashes, ears, costume wear, or simply remove your shirt or pants.

🚨 A Note to Cis Dudes! 🚨

(This means YOU, bro.)
This is not a “just walk around to check it out” or “I’ll change clothes later” event. We know the drill. Clothes change at the door.


đź§  BEHAVIOR GUIDELINES

Fem tops don’t chase — we choose.

We will tell you what we want.
You do not pitch yourself to us. You present yourself and wait to be claimed — or passed over.

Submission ≠ Extraction.
This is not about what you want to have. It’s about what we want to give. Approaching a fem to list your kinks, demands, or fantasy needs? Absolutely not.

Pro tip: We might not even let groups of men talk together. We wouldnt want them getting ideas. After all, if we want your opinion… we will give it to you.

ALL interaction at Sanctuary must be consensual. Consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy. If you do not understand consent, google it. If you do not abide by consent rules, you will be removed.


đź’¦ TASTINGS: Learn by Doing

Fempower tastings find and refine your inner top — through hands-on, guided exploration. Societal conditioning often stifles feminine dominance — but tonight, we break that mold. Explore different kink tools, methods of control, voice, and command. We will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to move forward inside and outside the confines of Sanctuary.

đź‘€ WANTED: Community Subs (masc and fem) for Tasting Service.
This could be your dream job. You will serve as demo bottoms for tops-in-training. No attitude. No backtalk. Just gratitude and stamina (and maybe a few brusies along the way).

List your interest  HERE.


đź’° ENTRY

Before 10 PM: $10 cash / $12 card
After 10 PM: $20 cash / $22 card


🔥 Scenes

Human Furniture & Fem Tops Foot Rubs


đź“– BIOS

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

ABOUT ALASKA:

A life-long artist, performer, and sex educator, Alaska Moon Kat hopes to build intentional peer-support communities surrounding the tenants of personal growth, power, and responsibility in a safe, educational, and entertaining atmosphere.
After many years of trials, tribulations, and people that sought to stifle and shrink them, Alaska has navigated what it takes to embody their full sexual and personal power as a femme person in today’s world. Using multidisciplinary knowledge and tools, this forever student and self-taught FemDom brings with them an uncanny and unique understanding of pleasure, pain, power, and play.
They view domming (and selective submission) as a grander way of moving throughout life, not simply reserved for sexual spaces. Once you walk into your power as a FemDom here at Fempower, you will notice the world starts treating you differently; and that’s because you will become different the more you walk with your innate feminine power.

IG: @alaskamoonkat – FetLife: Alaska_Moon-Kat – OF: @alaska.moon


Fempower is a ritual, a party, and a playground rolled into one unforgettable night. Come ready to be seen, celebrated, and transformed — or come ready to serve those who are.

You may not be ready…

But you’re invited anyway.

FEMPOWER. 

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, Anti-Racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.

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