FEMPOWER

hosted by Princess Puta & Miss B

Fempower is the way the world should be, a celebration of all things fem — dominant, creative, radiant, kinky, and free.

Fempower is about providing a safe place, without the influence of the Patriarchy or male-dominated sexuality, to really explore what it means to be a sexually empowered feminine person in today’s society. 

Expect:

• 💋 Dedicated play spaces designed for exploration, expression, and consent-driven kink

• 🍓 Rotating tasters based on each month’s kink theme, we hand the reins over to you!.

• 🔥 Live performances to educate, but mostly entertain

• 💡 Chances to learn from other fem tops and bottoms.

• 🦶Anyone excited and willing to bottom for the fem-inclined can visit our sign-making station and create a list of services that you’re willing to provide. 

  If you’re a knowledgeable fem and have a skill you would like to teach and share at future events, please complete the following: https://forms.gle/RHnL96C7QzKRLNDg8

🖤DRESS CODE

The spirit of this event is to celebrate fem tops: play the game, win the prize.

You are part of the scene the moment you walk in.

👢Fem/NB Tops & Subs: Express your dominance or submission however YOU define it — leather, latex, glam, goth, sheer, shining, or dripping in glitter and threat. The gaze is yours to control.

💄Masc Subs: This is an intentional community. Bottoms should dress accordingly. This CAN be fem, but does not have to be. You can wear fetish attire, collars, leashes, ears, costume wear, or simply remove your shirt or pants.

🚨 A Note to Cis Dudes! 🚨

(This means YOU, bro.)
This is not a “just walk around to check it out” or “I’ll change clothes later” event. We know the drill. Clothes change at the door.

🧠 BEHAVIOR GUIDELINES

Fem tops don’t chase — we choose.

We will tell you what we want.
You do not pitch yourself to us. You present yourself and wait to be claimed — or passed over.

Submission ≠ Extraction.
This is not about what you want to have. It’s about what we want to give. Approaching a fem to list your kinks, demands, or fantasy needs? Absolutely not.

Pro tip: We might not even let groups of men talk together. We wouldnt want them getting ideas. After all, if we want your opinion… we will give it to you.

ALL interaction at Sanctuary must be consensual. Consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy. If you do not understand consent, google it. If you do not abide by consent rules, you will be removed.

💦 TASTINGS: Learn by Doing

Fempower tastings find and refine your inner top & bottom — through hands-on, guided exploration. Explore different kink tools, methods of control, voice, and command. We will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to move forward inside and outside the confines of Sanctuary.

👀 WANTED: Community Subs (masc and fem) for Tasting Service.
This could be your dream job. You will serve as demo bottoms for tops-in-training. No attitude. No backtalk. Just gratitude and stamina (and maybe a few brusies along the way).

List your interest  HERE.

💰 ENTRY

Before 10 PM: $10 cash / $12 card
After 10 PM: $20 cash / $22 card

🔥 Performances

TBA

💰 BIOS

About the Hosts:
Miss B (She/Her/Ma’am) is an experienced, queer FemDomme, giggling Sadist, and an all-around chaotic Top. She loves pink, sunshine, and kinky pervert freaks. She believes in Matriarchy, community, and having as much fun as possible. Find her on Fet as bellainlingerie

Princess Puta uses their background in Mexican baile folklórico and their backside on stage to celebrate the gays, babes, and them and theys. Sustained by abject devotion, crumpled dollar bills and good bois, this big titillator is here to tease and be pleased. Fellow femme dommes can find them on FetLife as “PrinceXPuta.”

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, Anti-Racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth.