đź’„Welcome to FEMPOWER đź’„

hosted by Princess Puta & Miss B

FemPower is Sanctuary’s night for Femdoms and Fem Tops to take the lead and be celebrated. This isn’t your average play party! Everything and everyone are centered on feminine power, women’s desires, and female-led dynamics. Come to socialize, play, perform, watch, and sharpen your skills alongside other confident, hot, bossy women and nonbinary babes.

Bottoms, subs, worshippers, and admirers of all gender expressions are welcome and encouraged—come ready to support, serve, and show us your devotion.

This month’s theme is the Future is Female: Space, Robots & Sci-fi Sluts. This month we are travelling out of this world!! We want to see galactic glamour, fierce fembots, alien allure, futuristic fashion, metallic, chrome, neon, shiny or slimy, and all the otherworldly power you can summon. Whether you’re a cinematic space heroine, an evil alien queen, a cybernetic femme or seductive android, intergalactic explorer, or something entirely beyond our imagination, take us to your leader!! 🚀✨🤖 

EXPECT:

  • Dedicated play spaces with a variety of furniture
  • Impact, rope, electro, and MommyDom tastings/coachings offered by experienced Fem Tops, for both sides of the slash, and partners!
  • Live performances to entertain, and turn you on
  • Welcoming, affirming, consent-forward environment
  • Bottoms, subs, Fem Tops, FemDoms and couples (or polycules!) are all welcome to mingle and match!

DRESS CODE:
No effort, no entry.

FemDoms & Fem Tops:
Dress to impress—your style is the best vibe. đź‘‘ Fetish wear and bedroom glamour are encouraged. Whatever makes you feel hot and powerful! Even better if it’s on this month’s theme. 

Bottoms / Submissives / Admirers / men:
Effort is mandatory. Your look should clearly reflect your role and your interest in serving or supporting on that side of the slash. Acceptable attire includes (but is not limited to): fetishwear, collars, cuffs, heels, leather, PVC, lingerie, uniforms, costumes, harnesses, makeup, or styled/glam looks. Playful, exaggerated, or expressive outfits are welcome. 🙇‍♂️ 🙇 🙇‍♀️

If you don’t own fetishwear think minimal attire: your best underwear and eager smile.

Not acceptable: plain streetwear (jeans, basic t-shirts, hoodies, gym clothes, workwear, etc.).

RULES:

  • No blood, vomit, urine, or scat play; no hot wax, fire, knife or gun play, race play, or breath play. The DMs will end scenes including these actions.
  • No drugs or outside alcohol allowed.
  • No audio or video recording devices are allowed in the dungeon. Cell Phones may be used outside the pink door. If we see your phone out, you may be kicked out.
  • Limit your play scenes to 45 mins to allow time for others to use the play areas, suspension points and dungeon furniture as there are limited areas.
  • Clean furniture and play equipment before and after scenes. Cleaning supplies are provided by the club.
  • Do not move play furniture, ask club staff for assistance.
  • Do not interrupt scenes, get too close, or ask to be involved once scenes have started. If you weren’t a part of negotiations, wait until the scene ends to engage with players. No is a complete sentence.
  • Play is encouraged but NEVER required of anyone; please use personal responsibility and negotiate to your comfort level. Aggressive cruising and/or pushiness will not be tolerated.
  • If you are a Dominant man, this night is not for you, if you are a man who feels like topping, stay home. The patriarchy is not welcome at FemPower.
  • If you’re planning to embark on a particularly intense or edgy scene please let a DM know prior to starting.
  • Always obey the directions of the DMs, Security, bar staff, or party hosts.
  • If you feel someone is misbehaving, being aggressive, or making you or someone else feel uncomfortable, please let the DMs, Sanctuary staff, hosts know ASAP and we will do what we can to inform the individual or have them removed.
  • Party safewords are “red” or “safeword” and signify a call for assistance. If DMs, party hostesses, or experienced players hear these words, they will intervene on the scene/come to your aid.

DM bellainlingerie on Fetlife or send an email to missbellaceline@protonmail.com with questions or accessibility requests

About the Hosts:
Miss B (She/Her/Ma’am) is an experienced, queer FemDomme, giggling Sadist, and an all-around chaotic Top. She loves pink, sunshine, and kinky pervert freaks. She believes in Matriarchy, community, and having as much fun as possible. Find her on Fet as bellainlingerie

Princess Puta uses their background in Mexican baile folklĂłrico and their backside on stage to celebrate the gays, babes, and them and theys. Sustained by abject devotion, crumpled dollar bills and good bois, this big titillator is here to tease and be pleased. Fellow femme dommes can find them on FetLife as “PrinceXPuta.”

Venue Info:
Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Kinky perverts, exhibitionists, and voyeurs of all types are welcome. Leave any bigotry at the door.

Before 10pm: $10 cash / $12 Card. After 10pm: $20 cash /$22 card.

Doors open at 8, Tasters start at 8:45, performances start 11.

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