đź’„Welcome to FEMPOWER đź’„
FemPower is Sanctuary’s night for Femdoms and Fem Tops to take the lead and be celebrated. This isn’t a typical kinky play party! Everything and everyone are centered on feminine power and female-led dynamics. Come to socialize, play, perform, watch, and sharpen your skills alongside other confident, hot, bossy women and nonbinary babes. Whether you’re looking for a night out with other Fem Tops, to add to your repertoire of talents, or just dipping your pretty toes into your untapped power– this is the space where you are in control and YOUR desires are all that matters.
Bottoms, subs, worshippers, and admirers of all gender expressions are welcome and encouraged—come ready to support, serve, and show us your devotion.
This month’s theme is: Mother Earth Goddess—grounded, radiant, and the source of all natural life on Earth. We want to see earth tones, flowing fabrics, florals, flower crowns, wild animals, and gold accents that channel the divine feminine energy. You are natural beauty, powerful, and worthy of worship.
*EXPECT:**
– Dedicated play spaces with a variety of furniture
– Kink tastings offered by experienced Fem Tops, for both sides of the slash
– Live performances to entertain, and turn you on
– Welcoming, affirming, consent-forward environment
– Trained Dungeon Monitors
– Bottoms, subs, Fem Tops, FemDoms and couples (or polycules!) are all welcome to mingle and match!
Before 10pm: $10 cash / $12 Card. After 10pm: $20 cash /$22 card.
Doors open at 8, Tasters start at 8:45, performances start 10.
đź–¤DRESS CODE
**DRESS CODE:**
No effort, no entry.
FemDoms & Fem Tops:
Dress to impress—your style, your standard. Fetish wear and bedroom glamour are encouraged, but not required. Whatever makes you feel hot and powerful! Even better if it’s on this month’s theme!
Bottoms / Submissives / Admirers / men:
Effort is mandatory. Your look should clearly reflect your role and your interest in serving or supporting on that side of the slash. Acceptable attire includes (but is not limited to): fetishwear, collars, cuffs, heels, leather, PVC, lingerie, uniforms, costumes, harnesses, makeup, or styled/glam looks. Playful, exaggerated, or expressive outfits are welcome.
If you don’t own fetishwear think minimal but intentional attire: your best underwear and eager smile.
Not acceptable: plain streetwear (jeans, basic t-shirts, hoodies, gym clothes, workwear, etc.).
🧠BEHAVIOR GUIDELINESFem tops don’t chase — we choose.We will tell you what we want.
You do not pitch yourself to us. You present yourself and wait to be claimed — or passed over.Submission ≠Extraction.
This is not about what you want to have. It’s about what we want to give. Approaching a fem to list your kinks, demands, or fantasy needs? Absolutely not.Pro tip: We might not even let groups of men talk together. We wouldnt want them getting ideas. After all, if we want your opinion… we will give it to you.ALL interaction at Sanctuary must be consensual. Consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy. If you do not understand consent, google it. If you do not abide by consent rules, you will be removed.
**HOUSE RULES:**
– No blood, vomit, urine, or scat play; no hot wax, fire, knife or gun play, race play, or breath play. The DMs will end scenes including these actions.
– No drugs or outside alcohol allowed.
– No audio or video recording devices are allowed in the dungeon. Cell Phones may be used outside or in the bathroom hallway. If we see your phone out, you may be kicked out.
– Limit your play scenes to 45 mins to allow time for others to use the play areas, suspension points and dungeon furniture as there are limited areas.
– Clean furniture and play equipment before and after scenes. Cleaning supplies are provided by the club.
– Do not move play furniture, ask club staff for assistance.
– Do not interrupt scenes, get too close, or ask to be involved once scenes have started. If you weren’t a part of negotiations, wait until the scene ends to engage with players. No is a complete sentence.
– Play is encouraged but NEVER required of anyone; please use personal responsibility and negotiate to your comfort level. Aggressive cruising and/or pushiness will not be tolerated.
– If you’re planning to embark on a particularly intense or edgy scene please let a DM know prior to starting.
– Always obey the directions of the DMs, Security, bar staff, or party hosts.
– If you feel someone is misbehaving, being aggressive, or making you or someone else feel uncomfortable, please let the DMs, Sanctuary staff, hosts know ASAP and we will do what we can to inform the individual or have them removed.
DM bellainlingerie on Fetlife or send an email to missbellaceline@protonmail.com with questions or accessibility requests
💦 TASTINGS: Learn by DoingFempower tastings find and refine your inner top & bottom — through hands-on, guided exploration. Explore different kink tools, methods of control, voice, and command. We will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to move forward inside and outside the confines of Sanctuary.👀 WANTED: Community Subs (masc and fem) for Tasting Service.
This could be your dream job. You will serve as demo bottoms for tops-in-training. No attitude. No backtalk. Just gratitude and stamina (and maybe a few brusies along the way).List your interest HERE.
đź’° ENTRYBefore 10 PM: $10 cash / $12 card
After 10 PM: $20 cash / $22 card
🔥 PerformancesTBA
đź’° BIOS
ABOUT MISS B
*Miss B* (She/Her/Ma’am) is an experienced, queer FemDomme, giggling Sadist, and an all-around chaotic Top. She loves pink, sunshine, and kinky pervert freaks. She believes in Matriarchy, community, and having as much fun as possible. Find her on Fet as bellainlingerie
ABOUT PRINCESS PUTA
*Princess Puta* uses their background in Mexican baile folklĂłrico and their backside on stage to celebrate the gays, babes, and them and theys. Sustained by abject devotion, crumpled dollar bills and good bois, this big titillator is here to tease and be pleased. Fellow femme dommes can find them on FetLife as “PrinceXPuta.
