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Soft, Fluffy, Fuzzy… warm and cozy. Kink doesn’t have to be rough…. It can be soft too

Kandy Goddess is proud to announce another event dedicated to the subtle art of sensation This night isn’t about hard slaps or loud screams, but delicate hands, and soft whimpers of ecstasy.

We start off the evening with a fully interactive demo. Let Kandy Goddess show you the way of sensation. How to torture your partner with softness. We will be utilizing feathers, fur, and all kinds of synthetic fibers.

I highly encourage you to bring a friend or partner, so you can attempt what you’re learning in the moment. You will be given opportunities to practice together, and ask questions.

Coming solo? No worries. You can still participate and benefit from this evening.

After the demo class, the dungeon will be open for Play. We will also have a variety of sensation focused tastings available. There will be a limited amount of sensation tastings offered including floor rope.

Wear something soft and comfy. Challenge yourself to engage in kink in a way that isn’t harsh and sharp… but delicate and soft.

Doors open 7pm, Demo begins at 730pm.

The tone of the evening will be subtle seduction. Instead of party music, the speakers will be playing a much more mellow selection. I’m hoping to create a softer atmosphere to accommodate those with sensory sensitivities and PTSD—- **** If you enjoy this approach, please show your appreciation by supporting the venue and making a purchase(or two) at the bar. If you don’t partake in alcohol, they have plenty of nonalcoholic options available, including CBD drinks. This will ensure I can keep hosting this event, and creating a night that is more tolerable for those of us who find loud music and sudden noises off putting. ****

Kandy’s Candy station will be open. I am adding some diagrams of fun things to make out of beads. Make a memento and take it home! Or make something for your partner to commemorate the evening!

Party specific rules
-This night is about the subtlety of sensation. Heavy impact scenes will not be permitted. The goal is to keep the space as tranquil as possible.
-Any play that includes loud screaming, or loud sudden noises of any kind, will also not be permitted. If you are being too loud a DM will ask you to tone it down.
-It is NEVER ok to approach a couple or group that has already begun to engage in sexual or kink activities, and ask if you can JOIN IN or participate. If you were not involved in the negotiation of that scene, you missed your window of opportunity. If you break this rule, you are subject to being asked to leave the club.
-Do not interrupt an active scene. This includes trying to speak to anyone involved. If you have a concern, please report it to Sanctuary Staff.
-Do not touch the personal property of anyone without express permission. This extends to all ‘toys’ of any kind.
-Follow all directions and recommendations made by club staff, event volunteers, and the Party Host.
-All decisions made by the Party Host and Staff are final!

Per Sanctuary Rules:

  1. *There are no knives, guns, urine, scat, blood, fire, wax, race, or breath play allowed.
  2. *Be kind to other beings. Respect each other and people’s personal space. If someone says no to play, do NOT ask them again.
  3. *Please listen to and respect your Host/Dungeon Monitors.
  4. *There are no cell phones or photography allowed within the dungeon. Please exit to the stairwell to use your phone
  5. Sanctuary is a 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racist establishment that celebrates diversity. Leave any bigotry at the door.

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