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Brunch and Kink: Pre Holiday Edition
Brunch and Kink: Pre Holiday Edition
Hosted by Magenta Sin Come join us for Brunch and Kink: Pre holiday edition. A new brunch, kink event, and vendor fair. Get your holiday gifts here! Come find impact toys, harnesses, floggers, leather, collars, kinky art, and more. Vegan brunch with gluten free options included in the ticket price! Breakfast cocktails available for purchase. […]
Women in Power
Women in Power
Rose City Dommes and subs are having a Women-In-Power play party on November 26! Note: This party was originally Oct 22 and has now moved to November. Please note the time change as well. WIP is a Power-Exchange/BDSM-focused dungeon party for all self-identified Women Tops/Dominants/Owners/Trainers/Mistresses and every gender of bottoms/subs/slaves/human pets. People of all sexual orientations […]
Trans*cenDance: a trans and non-binary play party
Trans*cenDance: a trans and non-binary play party
Come dance and play among fellow transgender kinksters at Sanctuary's Trans kink party - Trans*cenDance. Allies welcome, but no chasers. DJ SWEARWOLF Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches, and dance floor. Kink, sex, and dancing encouraged. Consent is mandatory. Cash: $10 before 10pm, $20 after CC: $12 before 10pm, $22 after DRESS […]
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Game Bang!
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 cover Due to […]
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Ethical Slut Author Janet Hardy “Notes of an Aging Pervert” (SOLD OUT)
Ethical Slut Author Janet Hardy “Notes of an Aging Pervert” (SOLD OUT)
This event is SOLD OUT Join literary icon & co-author of "The Ethical Slut", "The New Topping Book", & more, in discussing their newest book on aging, sexuality, & gender. Copies will be available in person for purchase & signing. Click HERE to order a copy now! ”A meaningful, beautiful, and necessary book on how […]
Creature Feature (feat BiteClub)
Creature Feature (feat BiteClub)
Presented by Bite Club! Calling all pets, primals, fur-esque, and plain ol' kooky creatures. Creature Feature is back! It's getting warmer, get your blood pumping with some frolicking and dance. This is a pet / creature themed kink night, so feel free to pull out your claws, leashes, and leathers ! Featuring: Padded floor area, […]
Creature Feature (feat BiteClub)
Creature Feature (feat BiteClub)
Presented by Melancholi PORTLAND! Calling all pets, primals, fur-esque, and plain ol' kooky creatures. Creature Feature is here! We're keeping the creeps rolling by letting your inner demon run loose. Bring out your best, most monstrous personas and outfits and come celebrate the horror of the holidays with us! Just like Tim Burton would want.. […]
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Naked Karaoke*
Naked Karaoke*
Sing like you've had two shots. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Can I get naked? Yes. Q: Do […]
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Sexy Safer Sex w/Lee Harrington (POSTPONED)
Sexy Safer Sex w/Lee Harrington (POSTPONED)
DUE TO HEALTH REASONS, THIS EVENT HAS BEEN POSTPONED. Ready to explore the world of infinite love and sex but want tips on how to do it safely? Already using safer sex practices, but looking for tips to have it be less stressful, more fun, and seemingly seamless? In this no-judgments class, we’ll discuss […]
Rope for Sex w/MxBliss
Rope for Sex w/MxBliss
You don’t need years of rope experience and tons of gear to have a sexy and hot rope scene! In this class, MxBliss will share some of her ‘go-to’ bedroom ties for bondage, sex, and objectification. Two of the ties will focus on penetrative sex and all will cover exposure, bondage, objectification, and accessing (and […]
The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]
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Cirque de Sade: Annual Island of Misfit Toys
Cirque de Sade: Annual Island of Misfit Toys
Sleigh balls ring, tits are tinseled... This month our macabre theater and kink play party brings you our annual celebration of snow folx, slutty reindeer and evil eleves. @EmpressElsewise and @RedeemerPDX invite you to spend the evening embracing your dark side at our macabre circus. Whether you’re a player or voyeur, we offer an enthusiastic environment for taboo play for […]
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Game Bang!
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 cover Due to […]
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BroadCast: Kinky Craft Night
BroadCast: Kinky Craft Night
This event is for fem-identified. ‘Tis the season for gift giving, but kinky creativity should be celebrated every day, right!?! At this event you will have the option of making one of three different Kinky Crafts: *Wood paddle (pine) with a variety of decoration options *Macrame flogger (paracord) *Metal stamps (alphabet, numbers, symbols) to create […]
Bi Night: Katie & Brandon’s going away
Bi Night: Katie & Brandon’s going away
Tonight we celebrate bisexual humans and especially Katie & Brandon who have been essential to Bi Night but are leaving us for the land of the rising sun. We hear it constantly: Being bi can be hard. How do you make the approach? Are they just being friendly? How might it affect my other partners? […]
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Naked Karaoke*
Naked Karaoke*
Sing like you've had two shots. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Can I get naked? Yes. Q: Do […]
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Rope Arts Group PDX
Rope Arts Group PDX
Rope Arts Group promotes education and the exchange of knowledge about rope bondage. We welcome and embrace everyone, of every skill level, every gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, body size, race, age, religion, and design of relationships. We will be holding this event the 2nd Saturday of each month at Sanctuary […]
Laughrodisiac
Laughrodisiac
Portland's longest-running (and definitely filthiest) comedy showcase. Every second Saturday.
House Party
House Party
Dance like the house is on fire! After comedy ends, we will dance the night away. $20 Cash, $22 CC Featuring the best dance Djs Hard points and benches are still available as normal. The soundtrack will just be different. Getting consent is mandatory. Having consent is sexy! Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and […]
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Game Bang: Neon Nights
Game Bang: Neon Nights
Your favorite Wednesday event is back - with black lights!
Sanctuary will be bathed in UV glory for your pleasure...don your best neon gear and prepare to game in the glow.
Play games, hang out, stay safe.
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Merry Spanksmas: Spanktuary 4-year Anniversary
Merry Spanksmas: Spanktuary 4-year Anniversary
Merry Spankmas! Cum Celebrate our 4 year anniversary of Spanktuary with us! Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and […]
Spanktuary
Spanktuary
Presented by Cinder & Miss Josie Are you curious about Kink? A regular player looking for another party to do wonderfully horrible things with your partner? This party is made for you! Every month, Spanktuary will feature a class ranging from skills and techniques to consent and negotiation and more. At nine o’clock we will […]
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Naked Karaoke*
Naked Karaoke*
Sing like you've had two shots. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Can I get naked? Yes. Q: Do […]
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Jiffy Kink Speed Date
Jiffy Kink Speed Date
Presented by MX Bliss Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here! Out of respect for other attendees, please note that we expect you to dress up/make an effort. If you look like you're headed out to a sports […]
Jiffy Kink: Merry Kinkmas
Jiffy Kink: Merry Kinkmas
Friendly, Inclusive, and Welcoming Kink Party celebrating rope, rubber, and all that is Portland BDSM Presented by MxBliss I'll spare you the Christmas songs if you dress up sexy in your holiday themed skimpiness. Let's keep all the sexy santas, submissive elves, and Hannukah hotties warm from the cold by dancing, playing, and grinding at […]
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Oh My Goth!
Oh My Goth!
Presented by Faye By popular demand, get goth, emo, scene, and truly hate the sun! Dance and go medieval on that ass! $10 Cash/$12 CC in goth attire -- including anything black or kinda spooky. $15/17 street clothes. Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA, anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth
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Game Bang: Pajamas
Game Bang: Pajamas
What better than games? Games with your PJs on.
Wear your favorite pajamas... or your least favorite... or none at all.
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Heyyy Girl: High Fem Dance & Kink party
Heyyy Girl: High Fem Dance & Kink party
Heyyy Girl.... A Femme Dance & Kink Party Presented by Witch Prince This event is a dress up event in whatever being your most femme/themme self! There's no one way to be femme as there's no one way to be Queer. What is High Femme? A individual who exhibits a feminine identity or gender presentation […]
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Naked Karaoke*
Naked Karaoke*
Sing like you've had two shots. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Can I get naked? Yes. Q: Do […]
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Festivus! The holiday for the rest of us!
Festivus! The holiday for the rest of us!
Sanctuary’s sixth Festivus holiday celebration. Last year was snowed out! Festivus defined by Seinfeld: A non-denominational holiday party, Festivus represents all those who hate the commercial and religious aspects of Christmas. Look here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HX55AzGku5Y Frank Costanza: “Many Christmases ago, I reached for a doll for my son. Another man grabbed the same doll. As I rained […]
Santa Orgy: Krampussy
Santa Orgy: Krampussy
The XXXmas spirit of Buckmaster presents... Santa Orgy: Krampussy!! Santa is well known for sliding down chimneys, but in some parts of the world the Krampussy is known for sliding his long tongue into sooty shafts! All Krampussy ever wanted for XXXmas was you! According to ancient legend, the krampussy catches boys and girls and […]
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Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Game Bang: Blanket Forts
Blanket Fort night! BRING YOUR OWN BLANKETS! Best fort gets bragging rights and prizes: We're not saying its that bottle of bacon vodka that keeps getting re-gifted to all your friend's house parties... but it might be that very same bottle. Onesies, kigurumis and pajamas are encouraged. 21+ Welcome to Game Bang! ...where we play […]
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50 Shades of STFU
50 Shades of STFU
Come join the DOMINATIVITY scene at perhaps the most non-traditional winter kink-ibration! Don your favorite gay apparel, fetishwear, humiliating sweaters, or holiday jammies and enjoy all of the usual STFU femdom festivities you have come to know and love. We had to cancel our December event last year due to ice, so let's do this […]
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Naked Karaoke*
Naked Karaoke*
Sing like you've had two shots. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Can I get naked? Yes. Q: Do […]
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PLA: Black and Blue
PLA: Black and Blue
The Portland Leather Alliance Presents: Black and Blue Saturday The PLA is excited to announce that after a 5 year hiatus, our Black and Blue party is back y'all! Come join us to ring in the new year a day early on Saturday December 30th. Play, socialize, get a tasting, check out amazing vendors, and […]
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New Years Eve: SOLD OUT
New Years Eve: SOLD OUT
This event is SOLD OUT New Years Eve is a time for hope, remembrance, and a chance to be FANCY! Time to break out the suit & tie and evening dresses. Who wears them? Up to you! Dont have a suit or a dress? Wear something that approximates as to the best of your ability. […]
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Game Bang!
Game Bang!
Games! Everyone loves games. They are fun and an easy ice breaker. Play our games or bring your favorites from home. Janky Jenga, group pictionary, truth or dare and the type. You may choose to play different board games with your group. We want people to be able to play safely. $10 entry Due to […]
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BroadCast
BroadCast
We welcome you to BroadCast: BroadCast is Sanctuary's monthly live gathering for the broad spectrum of women and gender expansive folks who find a home in women's spaces and who are living and exploring lifestyle, swinging, polyam, consensual non-monogamy, and other sex positive non-vanilla ways of being in the world. We are a unique and […]
Bi Night
Bi Night
Thursday we celebrate bisexual humans! As owners of Sanctuary, we have the opportunity to talk to many different people with many different lifestyles. So, why "Bi-Night" when every night is kind of already "Bi-Night"? Well, easily the most disrespected group in our circles are bi-sexuals; bi-men in particular, though rarely intentionally. We admire the brave […]
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Naked Karaoke
Naked Karaoke
Sing like you've had two shots... and a chaser. *No one actually has to be naked for naked karaoke. We just like the name. Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Karaoke at 9. KJs rotate weekly. Rooms, equipment, and play rules are otherwise normal. Q: Do I have to […]
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BDSM and the Law: what every kinkster needs to know
BDSM and the Law: what every kinkster needs to know
Presented by Mx Bliss BDSM and the Law: what every kinkster needs to know to better protect themselves, their businesses, and their play partners Is that impact scene you are negotiating illegal and/or leave you open to legal liability? What happens if someone is injured in rope at your home? Who’s responsible for the medical […]
The Missing Kink
The Missing Kink
Get the kink you've been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary's numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]