Come prepared to meet people across the gender and kink spectrum; your open-mindedness, eagerness to expand your friend circle, and curiosity are welcome here!

Are you an introvert and mortified at the prospect of introducing yourself or asking people to play? Mistress Bliss will be there to hold your hands and “coax/force” you into social interaction (you know you like it when she yells). Are you a slutty extrovert that can’t stop flirting? Please come ‘cause your sluttery is celebrated here (with prizes no less)!

You’ll have about 3 minutes with a new potential friend to tell each other “what lights you up.” Mistress Bliss (the “Introvert Whisper”) and her sexy assistants will help you connect with your matches so you can find new friends and potential kinky play mates.

Dress code: Fetish, all black, something hilarious, something sexy…just make an effort will you? For those staying for Quink, please mind the dress code!

Immediately following Jiffy Kink, plan to stay for Quink—Portland’s Premier Queer Friendly Play Party hosted by the incomparable Mistress Viola! Your admission to Speed Dating includes admission to Quink. You’ll have a leg up for the play party and likely some new friends going into a night of BDSM shenanigans.

** Rules: ** Kindness, consent, and a willingness to meet new friends…oh, while you should bring your dick (bio or strap-on) don’t be one! If you can’t spend 3 minutes talking to a stranger who may not share your kinks, preferred partner gender, or whatever else you are looking for from a play partner, then this event is NOT for you.

This event is design built for experienced folks interested in expanding their play circle (you dirty, dirty sluts) or for those new to kink trying to figure out how to meet fellow BDSM explorers (tsk, tsk you perverts). If you are new to BDSM or the kink community, please let Mistress Bliss know so she can set you up with a pervert mentor that will give you quick orientation to Rules of Play Parties and Consent and Negotiation basics.

21+, ADA, LGBTQ+. $20 includes admission to the following event