Presented by Mistress Viola & head DM/cohost @MaeveMcBride, 50 Shades of STFU is a kinky play party and social event for femdoms and femme tops and the individuals who serve and worship them. We have been home at Sanctuary Club downtown since 2017.

This month we encourage you to bring your AGGRESSIVE PRIDE in honor of Pride Month, which due to the swelling dragphobia and homophobia in this bitchass cuntry, is getting more important by the minute. Let’s vomit rainbows & progress pride flag colors all over the scene. Let’s be gay and do crimes. Let’s let our freak flags fly loud and proud – because KINK BELONGS AT PRIDE! So whatever you’re proud of you subversive little perverts, SHOW IT OFF.

Featured guest this month is @MxPucksaPlenty from Seattle. They will also be giving tastings! So do not miss this opportunity! And If YOU are craving attention we will also be hosting another catwalk, a Pride Prance (arrive by 9:15 pm to sign up for the catwalk).

BIPOC folks please reach out to [email protected] for a spot on the guestlist for free entry (or mention the BIPOC free entry policy at the door). If you are experiencing financial hardship or if cost is a barrier please reach out for a spot as well. Otherwise, tix can be purchased at door! $15 all night ($2 Credit Card Fee so bring cash to avoid.)

What happens at this infamous event? The show usually starts around 9pm and we have now added tastings from 8pm-midnight (what are tastings? It’s a first come first serve sign-up sheet for short scenes with experienced dommes).

We aim to create an inclusive space for LGBTQ, pansexual, queer, or straight submissives and their fem tops. If you’re a cis male dom this is really not the event for you. However, if you’re switchy and/or abide by the dress code you are welcome to join us!

Are you looking to get involved, we have some volunteer positions available for both service subs and photo-booth attendants, fill out this form here and we will reach back out for this event or the next!

Playspaces, St. Andrews cross, semi-private areas, spanking benches, and hard points are available.

UPDATE: Covid Safety for STFU:
Sanctuary has removed vaccination card checking for ALL events at Sanctuary, so unfortunately we are no longer checking vax cards at the door. We encourage our community to be up to date with their vaccines to protect all of us. Please take this into consideration when making your personal risk assessments. If you have questions, please contact us at [email protected]. Please, please, stay home if you are feeling under the weather in any way, scratchy throat, sniffles, or fever. We encourage you to test before and after all large events.

Safety Downtown:
Please support each other in arriving and leaving the club, if you need a buddy to attend with reach out in the Femdom Forum here: https://fetlife.com/groups/167011

DRESS CODE:

No effort, no entry!

FemDom/femme attendees can dress to impress as they wish (fetish wear encouraged).

Male/submissive attendees are required to dress to express their interest in femdom, even in some small way, examples include:

• Fetish wear, collars/leash, cuffs, high heels, fetish shoes, hoods, leather, PVC
• Crossdressed, glamour, make-up, lingerie
• Uniforms*, costumes, puppy or animal costumes
• Bright silly clothing, rainbows, sweet jammies, cute underpants, bow ties, bunny ears, etc.

Male attendees:

• May not wear plain street clothes, jeans, or even a nice suit. If you have not made an effort to abide by the dress code, you may not be allowed entry.

First-timers who do not own fetishwear may wear:

• Something costumey or silly
• Can be shirtless or take their pants off to show off their underwear.

We can give you a nametag to identify as: submissive, sub-curious, service sub, etc.

*Racist/fascist symbols or uniforms are not allowed in the club

Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA accessible (there is an elevator), anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on Ninth”