Sanctuary provides a gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. We welcome and honor LGBTQ+, poly, swing, kink, POC, all gender identities and relationship configurations.

Hosted by Maeve McBride The 1st Saturday of every month, before The Missing Kink. Get ready for a night of fun, laughter, and brain-teasing challenges at Portland’s sexiest quiz night aka “The sapiosexuals’ wet dream.” Whether you’re a trivia enthusiast, a kinkster, a newbie dipping your toes into the scene, just looking for a sexy […]

Get the kink you’ve been missing back into your life. Enjoy Sanctuary’s numerous hard points, play spaces, spanking benches Cash: $10 before 10, $20 after. CC: $12 before 10, $22 after Dress code: This is a fetish/kink night so dress to impress. No athletic, gym, or beach wear unless you are taking that shit off! […]

Portland Leather Alliance

Presented by Redeemer Bring your bleeding hearts, broken hearts, big hearts, or hearts of stone…and lay them at the QUEEN OF HEARTS feet to be tortured, sliced and diced as she sees fit (Since we have blood play!). CIRQUE welcomes you to embrace your dark side at our macabre circus. Whether you’re a scene-player, edge-player, or […]

🔔 Devil’s Doorbell: Gender-Expansive Speed Dating 🔔 Hosted by Lucki When: Second Tuesday of every month Doors: 7:00 PM Cost: $10 cash / $12 card Where: Sanctuary — enter on Ninth Devil’s Doorbell is a femme-centered, queer-forward speed dating experience for gender-expansive people across the spectrum who are craving real connection; romantic, flirty, kinky, or […]